by Laura Giddings and Kayleigh Harper

Jace provides one-to-one job support for Greg on the Farm. Like many of us, Jace’s journey in L’Arche began with a sense of longing.

What attracted you to L’Arche?

I was looking for a position on a farm. I had been talking to a bunch of different people about longing to be a part of something more. I wanted to be accepted for who I am and to respect the beliefs and truths of everyone.

What does inclusion and belonging mean to you? 

Inclusion and belonging means: not asking you to change who you are. Finding your gifts and shining a light on them. Finding your people by the relationships you build, the time spent together, and the commonalities shared.

What has been the most surprising aspect of your transition into community?

How much of a family we are. Everyone is interested in your life and willing to get to know you. There is not as much surface level conversation. When people ask how you are, they REALLY want to know how you are. Another example is, after my surgery. Having people follow up with you and show that they care. 

What are your favorite memories in community? 

Foot washing during Triduum. To see the community share moments of caring for one another. Those moments of seeing Greg show compassion and wanting to help. Having moments of joy throughout the day. 

Anything else you’d like to share?

When I came, I wasn’t sure if there would be pressure to be more spiritual or influenced to think a certain way. But everything here has been on my time, and I haven’t felt pushed to do anything I don’t want to do. At L’Arche, I’ve found a home and a job I love.

After being here for a year, it makes me feel like wanting to think about the beliefs I hold, and how they fit into L’Arche.